First loves as I have observed will be the one you always remember; the one you learn about the kind of pain you feel inside is so much worse than physical pain itself; some people start building walls after (sometimes the walls never come down).That is why I think that if you are someone's first love you are really lucky. With your first love I believe you give your all or more.So open; so vunerable; so naive; so oblivious to the fact that most of the time it will probably end at some point or other and it will hurt like crazy, NO, like F***.And then it ends. For real. F***. Then ppl build walls, shut down, close your heart, lock the doors, break down.You will get over him/her.But you are not exactly the same as before.Someone else comes along but no matter how much you may like ths new person, you can't give as much, won't give as much, scared to give as much. You wouldn't want to go through the F***ing ordeal all over again. Do you? That's why I guess if someone is your first love, and you are not thiers, you may not be so lucky. But it is because of the pain, the downs and the shit that when you are have your ups, your good times, you feel the incredible mind blowing difference.I am not saying after your first love you can not give your all or more. But rather you don't give your all so quickly, so recklessly, so easily. Your loves after the first will definately have to work more. Maybe even not getting through those walls and guards that were built. This can go on and on. Debatable. Differing views.